How do I overcome panic attacks brought on by feelings of inadequacy?
ByMy girlfriend has had a lot more sexual partners than I have, due to the fact that my only partner before her was a very long term relationship.
We’ve been going through a rough patch, and have stopped having sex (partially due to her being sick, and her medication causing her to lose her libido), and I get strong feelings of inadequacy because I feel like I can’t turn her on, as so many men before me have. She tells me I shouldn’t compare and that it has nothing to do with me, but I have nightmares about her with previous men, and wake up drenched in sweat, and sometimes also have Panic Attacks during the day.
How can I overcome my need for sex, and my feelings that I’m less of a man than those before me?
One common problem that happens is this. I have been there and done that. You have to figure out what it is first that is destroying her sex drive. If shes on medication like birth control or anti-depressants that is something to think about and do research on. Other then that it could just be stress, maybe the kids, really anything that makes your life stressful can do this and lower the libido.
One thing I tried that seemed to work while I was doing it was exercising. I just felt sexier doing it which kind of boosted my libido. However it wasn’t the best solution for me. My friend told me about these herbal enhancers that are made from natural herbs and don’t cause any side effects besides having wild sex. She said it’s the female version of viagra that you should suggest to her. I had to find out.
I would always have a weak orgasm too (if I had one at all), which after trying this sex enhancer, it boosted them tremendously. I don’t get multiple orgasms but I’ve had plenty since being on these herbs. It’s seriously like the best vibrator ride you’ve ever experienced. These things make me horny all the time, some days I don’t even take them because the urge is just too strong.
Don’t try out single herbs because they don’t do it like the blend of herbs these scientists and researchers pick out. I’ve tried a couple of them by itself and they did crap. The stuff that I’m on is called Hersolution, at the time I saved money on it at herenhancement .com . Make sure she gets the 3 month supply that way you fall under the guarantee/return policy if the herbs don’t work for her, she can return them with no questions ask. I bet they will work though and you won’t have any problems. Also if shes on medication of any sort, check out the gel because if your like me, you wouldn’t want to swallow any thing that might react with the medications your already on.
Well have a good day and hopefully you solved your problem.


3 Comments
May 7th, 2010 at 7:50 am
You just don’t think about it, learn to be wise. I mean if she tells you to not worry about it then just stop. You say that you think that you’re less of a man than those before you, then what is she doing with you? Wouldn’t she have already left you for someone whom she fells is better. To me I think you are just paranoid and insecure and you need your sense of self back. If I were you i wouldn’t worry about little things like that. I act as though I had a 12 inch cock even if i didn’t.
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May 7th, 2010 at 8:20 am
One common problem that happens is this. I have been there and done that. You have to figure out what it is first that is destroying her sex drive. If shes on medication like birth control or anti-depressants that is something to think about and do research on. Other then that it could just be stress, maybe the kids, really anything that makes your life stressful can do this and lower the libido.
One thing I tried that seemed to work while I was doing it was exercising. I just felt sexier doing it which kind of boosted my libido. However it wasn’t the best solution for me. My friend told me about these herbal enhancers that are made from natural herbs and don’t cause any side effects besides having wild sex. She said it’s the female version of viagra that you should suggest to her. I had to find out.
I would always have a weak orgasm too (if I had one at all), which after trying this sex enhancer, it boosted them tremendously. I don’t get multiple orgasms but I’ve had plenty since being on these herbs. It’s seriously like the best vibrator ride you’ve ever experienced. These things make me horny all the time, some days I don’t even take them because the urge is just too strong.
Don’t try out single herbs because they don’t do it like the blend of herbs these scientists and researchers pick out. I’ve tried a couple of them by itself and they did crap. The stuff that I’m on is called Hersolution, at the time I saved money on it at herenhancement .com . Make sure she gets the 3 month supply that way you fall under the guarantee/return policy if the herbs don’t work for her, she can return them with no questions ask. I bet they will work though and you won’t have any problems. Also if shes on medication of any sort, check out the gel because if your like me, you wouldn’t want to swallow any thing that might react with the medications your already on.
Well have a good day and hopefully you solved your problem.
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May 7th, 2010 at 8:51 am
There’re many techniques and methods to overcome panic attacks.
I’ve found a site which gives tips about it.
http://www.mypanic.net/
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